Testimonials

self concept NLP testimonial

This was my first experience with NLP coaching.
In the past, I’ve always relied on willpower to make the changes that I’ve wanted in life.
It’s worked for lots of things, but would often get tired and end up slowly slipping back.
I’m a very private person, so I didn’t like the idea of sharing so much with someone I didn’t really know, but I really wanted help, so I just sent an email saying how I felt.
It turned out that there are ways to be coached without even having to say what the problem was.
I was offered ‘content-free’ sessions, and we could just see how they went.
That sounded perfect, so I decided to give it a go.
As we went through the Core Transformation process, I moved through each new layer of what was going on inside me – without having to say any of it.
When I finally arrived at my Core State, the relief was unbelievable.
We carried on, transforming well-intentioned parts that wanted to protect me by hiding away.
By the end, I could not find a single part that wanted to stop me from having what I wanted.
Now, I still sometimes feel like a wobbly newborn, taking my first steps, after avoiding everything for so long, but it’s nothing like what I’d thought it would be, and it’s definitely better than hiding.
I’m so glad I now know someone who can help me, if I decide to ask again.
If you’re considering trying NLP coaching for yourself, I’m pleased to recommend that you get in touch.

— Claire | UK

Totally blown away after personally experiencing the Self-Concept model.
I had no idea that there is actually a process to map how I think about my ‘Self’.
And change it, if I want to.
We started out mapping a positive quality I already know I have.
I discovered that I’m very visual, and so when I remember memories of a positive quality, I always see the pictures a certain way in my mind.
Then, we moved on to mapping a a positive quality that I wanted (confidence) but wasn’t so sure that I had in myself.
We updated the whole confidence database - emphasising old examples, finding new ones, reframing counter-examples and even transforming counter-examples into future examples!
It’s hard to explain, but now that I can easily see all those transformed examples in my mind, whenever I need them, I have so much more space to choose how I want to be in those situations.
At the end, I was asked to look back over the experience and describe what I now noticed that was different and I just burst out laughing.
This is such a different approach to change work.
Try it!

— Jack | Netherlands

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core transformation testimonial

I was worried that if I spoke to someone something might go wrong, and then I might be stuck.
They told me the first step was to discover what my values are and that this wouldn’t change anything.
I’d just have a useful map of what is really important to me.
So I said OK.
I found out that protecting myself is very important to me so that I can live a more peaceful life.
I have now done some Core Transformation and it has helped me a lot.

— Tracey | UK

Next-level stuff.
I got really clear about what is important to me in life and now have a regular session once a month.
In each session, we update my Quality ‘databases’ and generally arrange my internal world so that I’m in the best position to keep moving in the direction that I want.
I’m more productive than I’ve ever been, and I finally feel like I’ve built up the momentum to really live my life on purpose.
Now, I treat my mental hygiene like visiting the dentist.

— Joe | UK

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conversational hypnosis testimonial

I don’t know if you’re the type of person who can imagine how useful it would be to get good with Conversational Hypnosis...
But I am!
I love language and enjoy playing with words.
Lots of people find that when they start doing something that they really enjoy, they don’t need to try to focus, you just easily absorb everything that’s going on.
Now, with me, I feel like that when I’m practising my conversational skills.
I work in Sales, so learning something like Conversational Hypnosis is great for tailoring my pitches so I can meet the specific needs and wants of my clients exactly.
At this point in my journey, these sessions are like having a Conversational Hypnosis Sparring Partner.
When I book a session, we warm up with what I’m good at and then I get stretched with new patterns to see how far I can go.
The outcome is always improving my abilities through actual practice, methodically, and with repetition.
Getting good at these skills has been a massive professional success for me.
The results easily pay for all my ongoing training and improve pretty much every other area of my life.
So, if you can imagine a point in the future, where you can clearly see yourself really enjoying the benefits, personally or professionally, of learning a new skill like Conversational Hypnosis, and can look back to now, as this being just the start of that – then this training is for you!

— Peter | UK

Thank you for all your help.
Life has definetly changed for the better, now I'm out the other side.
Definitely worth it.

— Helen | UK

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